Our daughter was of the same mode, what worked with her if she wouldn't get out of bed, was we deliberatly went shopping, coming back with some goodies that made her envious. Worked like magic after the 2nd time. Also if we spent a day doing a park, we made the next day a slobbing day, and only did something in the afternoon, so while the kids snoozed during the morning, us old un's had the pool to ourselves