Hi Steph, good to be back in the land of the living again [msnsmile2] It's been a rough time since Oct 2005, during our 20th wedding anniversary trip to Florida my wife told me she was leaving when we got back, for a 22yr old lesbian in the Household Cavalry!!. She took my daughter but left the boys with me, splitting the kids apart is the only thing I'll never forgive her for. Things are pretty much back to "normal" and I get my daughter at weekends after school Friday until I drop her off there again on Monday mornings. The "boys" (now 19 & 17!) are still with me, Adam (19) is working part time as a barman having given up college and Jared (17) was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome so can be a bit of a handful, I've spent the last 2 hours persuading him to get changed so I can wash his clothes!. Jared and I managed a trip together in March/April and had a great time, hopefully going back in Oct or Nov-Dec if we can manage it.