Hi Vicky

We have just come back from holidaying with friends and we had separate cars,one people carrier and one large car.We decided over supper what we all wanted to do the next day,someday's they had all the kids and another it was our turn,we stayed together on occasions and others just us.
Our friends were 1st timers as well and we have been many times,I think you are worrying a bit too much,once you are all there it will come together,but it is your holiday as well so compromise is what you will all need to do not just you!

Pam