My statement certainly wasn't meant to be judgmental in any way. Perhaps you are feeling sensitive to the comment because the whole process has upset you, and you are finding it stressful. It's one of those situations where had we been talking face to face you would have realised that the entire paragraph was basically a question.
I did also write that "I've never heard of anyone in your family members' situation who has been refused this visa" so the sooner it's applied for the better and then you can relax and enjoy planning your vacation.
The main reason that I posted in the first place, was because I have not experienced what you described on your previous entry to America. I've been visiting America on average 5 times per year for a number of years now, and I felt qualified to respond to your comments (as did Blott) and to reassure others that what you described is most definitely very far from the norm.
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