we got out B1 visa but the kids haven't
does anyone want to babysit for 6 months+!
this is how stupid this whole thing is.
we went upto the US Embassy 2 weeks ago. got there at 8am for our 9am appointment. the queue was already around the block! QUESTION. WHY DO THEY BOOK SO MANY PEOPLE IN AT ONE TIME?????
Waited in a good orderly line like the British are renowned for doing! at 9.45am we walked through the bag x-ray, and up the steps. oh i was getting very nervous never seen so many armed police in my life...... We were told to go up the steps to the left. so up we went, into this huge room, with massive fans that ruined the hard work that i put into my hair! LOL
again we stood in line, passing time chatting to the South Africans in front. then a really nice woman walked up the line asking to check all the papers, she asked if we had our pre paid envelopes, we and everyone else said no. and we were told that we had to get their special courier envelopes that cost 10.00. so most of the line had to go back downstairs. behind a very high (and i mean high) desk a little head peeped over, and said to my hubby that because we had 5 applications we would need 2 envelopes. costing 20 quid.
he then came back upstairs to join the queue. finally we got to a little window, where a nice man took all our paperwork, and asked why we had 2 envelopes, we told him that we were told to get 2, he said go back and get a refund, this my hubby did. he gave us a number and told to take a seat.
QUESTION, WHY IS THERE NEVER ENOUGH SEATS SO EARLY IN THE MORNING????????
ok we sat down, and realised after 2 hours of eating there over priced food and drink from the vending machines that the numbers on the tickets bear no relation to the order that you are called! QUESTION WHY DO THEY NOT HAVE MORE COUNTERS OPEN? THERE WERE 3 OPEN, AND ONE WENT FOR LUNCH.
finally i was getting excited, the tiredness had worn of, i could see this lady behind the counter flicking through our 'files' we were called, wrong cubical but as it was closed we said the the lady is it us you want, as i didn't relish going to find my chair, after the brawl that occured when we stood up. you really could make money from charging for the seats, (better not tell that to the US Embassy, they might do it, just to make a bit more money!)
we stood there for 5 minutes whilst we were interogated! why why why what when how. yes sir no sir three bags full and i will kiss your a**e just so that you will like us!!!! hooray we were told we had our B1 visas. we were free to go for 6 months to find a business so that we can BUY our way into the US.....
then the bad news our 3 children, ages 3, 6 and 12 were only allowed out on the visa waiver for 90 days, we asked why, and she said because they would be returning for their UK Schooling. QUESTION, I THOUGHT EVERY CHILD WAS ENTITLED TO FREE EDUCATION IN ANY COUNTRY BUT OBVIOUSLY MINE WEREN'T.
so my darling children, because of wanting a 'better life' are being penalised. and i think it is very bad. QUESTION WHY DID WE HAVE TO PAY 60 QUID PER CHILD FOR NO REASON?
our attorney is on the case, basically he has said, that we should enroll the children in school, then 80 days later leave the US for a nice cruise around the Bahamas, and come back in. BUT and a BIG BUT. if the immigration officers ask us if the children have been enrolled in school whilst we were here, and we say no and they find out through records, we can say goodbye to our visas.
so what is the answer? leave the kids home alone? leave them with long term babysitters, or take them with us, (silly question really, i couldn't be without them for a minute)
so we're in a catch twenty two position.
i scream HELP
(oh and sorry this is such a long thread)