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ravtino
31-10-2005, 02:36
This is not a joke but something I was sent and I thought I would share it with you, as it is something that is close to my heart

A timely reminder!

A handsome, middle-aged man walked quietly into the cafe and sat down.
Before he ordered, he couldn't help but notice a group of younger men at the table next to him.
It was obvious they were making fun of something about him, and it wasn't until he remembered he was wearing a small pink ribbon on the lapel of his suit that he became aware of what the joke was all about.

The man brushed off the reaction as ignorance, but the smirks began to get to him. He looked one of the rude men square in the eye, placed his hand beneath the ribbon and asked, quizzically, "This?"

With that the men all began to laugh out loud.

The man he addressed said, as he fought back laughter, "Hey, sorry man, but we were just commenting on how pretty your pink ribbon looks against your blue jacket!"

The middle aged man calmly motioned for the joker to come over to his table and invited him to sit down.

As uncomfortable as he was, the guy obliged, not really sure why.

In a soft voice, the middle aged man said, "I wear this ribbon to bring awareness about breast cancer.
I wear it in my mother's honour."

"Oh, sorry dude. She died of breast cancer?"

No, she didn't. She's alive and well. But her breasts nourished me as an infant and were a soft resting place for my head when I was scared or lonely as a little boy. I'm very grateful for my mother's breasts and her health."

Umm," the stranger replied, "Yeah."
And I wear this ribbon to honour my wife", the middle aged man went on.
"And she's okay, too?" the other guy asked.
"Oh, yes. She's fine. Her breasts have been a great source of loving pleasure for both of us, and with them she nurtured and nourished our beautiful daughter 23 years ago. I am grateful for my wife's breasts, and for her health."

"Uh huh. And I guess you wear it to honour your daughter, also?"
"It's too late to honour my daughter by wearing it now. My daughter died of breast cancer one month ago.
She thought she was too young to have breast cancer, so when she accidentally noticed a small lump, she ignored it. She thought that since it wasn't painful, it must not be anything to worry about."
Shaken and ashamed, the now sober stranger said, "Oh, man, I'm so sorry mister."

"So, in my daughter's memory, too, I proudly wear this little ribbon, which allows me the opportunity to enlighten others. Now, go home and talk to your wife and your daughters, your mother and your friends.
"And here," the middle-aged man reached in is pocket and handed the other man a little pink ribbon.

The guy looked at it, slowly raised his head and asked, "Can ya help me put it on?"

This is breast cancer awareness month.

Do regular breast self-exams and encourage those women you love to do the same.
Please send this on to anyone you would like to remind of the importance of breast cancer awareness.

A CANDLE LOSES NOTHING BY LIGHTING ANOTHER CANDLE. PLEASE KEEP THIS CANDLE GOING!

smiler
31-10-2005, 13:14
Oh that brought a lump to my throat. Men should read this as well as it is not only women who get breast cancer.

Ray&Sarah
31-10-2005, 21:59
This is very close to my heart at the moment as a friend went into have an op on Friday and is awaiting the results of he biopsy.

LiesaAnna
31-10-2005, 22:23
it never goes away with me, my mum got breast cancer when in her early 40's i have regular mammogrammes every year now and have doen for the last 11 years!! my mum passed away 9 years ago now, and her ignorance of it killed her!! get yourselves checked even you guys!!! a moments embarressment can save lives!!![grouphug][grouphug]

DiannaUK
31-10-2005, 22:58
I have just today been referred to a breast clinic for a suspicious lump, waiting for an appointment in the next day or two, so this is indeed very close to my heart.

You don't really think about it too much until it's close to home [msnsad]but this is a very important message to get out there.

Dianna

rosie
31-10-2005, 23:29
Stay positive Di, hopefully it will come to nothing, besides we have got big plans for Xmas so you have to be ok [grouphug]

fiona
31-10-2005, 23:31
This is very close to my heart after being diagnosed with breast cancer almost 12 months ago to the day. Had a rollercoaster of a year but on the mend now. I wear my pink ribbon every day.

Fingers crossed for you Dianna, and your friend Sarah, this is going through us like an epidemic. My closest friend got it 6 years ago, has survived after usual awful treatment, another friend was not so lucky. Another friend got it the same time as me, didn't have to have such invasive treatment, but still awful.

Check yourself gals.

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ravtino
01-11-2005, 00:20
DiannaUK keep positive, I have been through it twice and you have to stay positive and keep going whatever happens, just think of it as a blip that WILL go away.[msnsmile2]

DiannaUK
18-11-2005, 08:45
<blockquote id="quote" class="ffs">quote:Originally posted by DiannaUK
I have just today been referred to a breast clinic for a suspicious lump, waiting for an appointment in the next day or two, so this is indeed very close to my heart.

You don't really think about it too much until it's close to home [msnsad]but this is a very important message to get out there.

Dianna
[/quote]

Well, unfortunately, the diagnosis was positive - got the results yesterday - just trying to get to grips with it all - definitely trying to go with the "positive mental attitude", but at 4.30 in the morning, not so easy - I know that many of you have been through the same thing so I may be looking for some support in the coming months [msncry] Being on the forum will no doubt help keep me busy!

Make sure you check your breasts regularly ladies, it really can happen to you!
Dianna

Macka
18-11-2005, 12:02
Dianna,

Of course you know you'll get some of the support you need here. Maybe you can voice concerns here that you may not feel able to to your nearest and dearest. You've never met us here so that might be useful.

Why doesn't any one here who's been through this, post the word ME.
then if Dianna wants to sound off somewhere, she can DM you.

You might not want to Dianna but there's no harm in knowing it's there eh?

I haven't been through this personally, but anyway. ME.

Ray&Sarah
18-11-2005, 12:04
Oh Dianna what can I say, sorry to hear the prognosis was positive, we will all be here for you in the coming months, stay positive.[grouphug]

sheenallan
18-11-2005, 12:04
So sorry to hear your news Dianna but stay positive and i am sure with all the help and prayers of all this wonderful forum YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT!!
Sheena

LiesaAnna
18-11-2005, 12:17
Dianna,
i am so sorry [grouphug][grouphug] wish hug a could make it better for you!!
would be there like a shot and give the biggest hug possible!
try and stay positive, easier said then done, but we are all wishing you all the very best, in our thoughts
love and hugs sent to you and all cancer sufferers[grouphug][grouphug]

fiona
18-11-2005, 17:35
OMG Dianna, I am so sorry to hear this, you are me exactly 12 months ago.

I will DM you giving you my phone number - if you want to talk I am here. And I am often up all hours of the night due firstly to worry / fear / shock (that was when first diagnosed), then being ill (during chemo) then the steroids keep you awake, and now it's the tamoxifen.

Out of my circle of friends 5 of us have had, 1 isn't with us any longer, but 4 of us are. So girls (actually and guys because men get it too, just not as many) do check yourselves, you - or your partner - are likely to notice something earlier than any screening. I was called for my first screening this month through the system, as obviously despite my doctor's surgery knowing I have had it, and the Breast Clinic knowing too, the admin department can't put the 2 together.

ravtino
18-11-2005, 22:36
I am so sorry to hear this, i know all the thoughts you are having. Please stay strong. We'll be here for you[grouphug]

DiannaUK
18-11-2005, 23:57
Thank you everyone, much appreciated, and the DMs too.

I'm off to Windwood Bay on 10 December, so that will help enormously.

Dianna.

MICKEYSDEN
19-11-2005, 01:26
Dianna
We have just been told by Rosie, we are so sorry, be strong and enjoy your time at Windwood Bay.
We are here if you need us.
Karen and Mick